Monthly Archives: December 2010

Fave Friday!: My Favorite Five From Coach Dawn Writes

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Everywhere you look today, you’re going to see Top 10 lists for this or that. But I know that you’ve got big plans for the evening and don’t have time to sit around reading about my favorite ten posts from Coach Dawn Writes. So in the interest of letting you get ready for that exciting shindig you’ve been invited to, I’ve got my five favorite posts that you may have slept on this year.

5 Coach Dawn Writes posts that deserve more love!

1. This post is like a mini manifesto and the basis of the entire blog. It’s about becoming a coaching nerd, studying up on your craft, and just immersing yourself in getting better at what you do. I know that there are lots of coaching nerds out there. They look like volleyball coaches, soccer coaches, basketball coaches, field hockey coaches…you get the picture. They love their sport, they love teaching their sport, they love learning about their sport and their craft.

2. Being a coach of female athletes has been an amazingly wonderful experience. I love creating a community of like-minded young ladies and motivating them to be successful. Over the course of time, though, I’d heard a lot of chatter about girls not being competitive or about the need to treat women with kid gloves and I came up with this article. It’s about how to properly motivate female athletes for success…for now and in their future.

3. It’s fun to talk about leadership, because I believe it’s what we do. We are leaders, we build leaders…sports is all about leadership. So when I saw an opportunity to pair leadership with my favorite childhood cartoon, I jumped at the opportunity! As a kid, there were many Saturday mornings spent with me plopped in front of the television, watching Voltron…this great cartoon about mechanical robots charged with protecting their nation. Anyhoo, there’s a strong leadership and team roles connection to be made, so check out my post about Voltron and leadership here.

4. We all have folks on our teams whose personalities don’t fit together all that nicely and we’re quietly watching to make sure things don’t blow up on us. I believe a good team should have all types to be successful, but having those different personalities can be challenging for the person who has to manage them…that’s you coach! But having your teams take a personality test can help everyone get to know their own strengths and weaknesses as well as understand why certain folks act the way they do. I favor the DISC method and I wrote a bit about it here.

5. I loved this when I saw the original! I wrote about the five stages of a coach’s career after seeing the bullet points on another coaching blog. I think they’re pretty accurate (at least thus far) and it’s fun to think through what stage that I think I’m at…even more fun to ask another coach where they think you are in the continuum.

Well, that should do for now folks. Have fun tonight and have a wonderful beginning to what is sure to be a fabulous new year!

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Eight Is Great: Coach Dawn Writes’ 8 Most Popular Articles

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Are you on winter break from work and looking for something to do? Well, it’s your lucky day, because I’ve got the top posts from Coach Dawn Writes ready for you…right here at your finger tips! I based the list on how many times they’ve been clicked and came up with a lot of info about leadership, teamwork, personality tests, setting goals, and youth sports all in one place. So get comfortable, grab a cup of coffee, kick your feet up and check out these articles.

8 posts that were super popular with the readers this year

  • #8: Coming in at number 8 is a post that was retweeted and Facebooked quite a bit. How To Spot a Loser And Keep Them Off Of Your Team was clearly one that resonated with a lot of folks. This is one of those that crosses from athletics into real life…a loser on the court will more than likely be a loser in the office cubicle as well.
  • #7: I love cartoons and I love John Wooden’s teachings…and apparently I’m not the only one! How Watching Toy Story 3 Can Teach The Essentials Of Teamwork was very popular. I’m not one of those folks who has to get dragged kicking and screaming to see a kids movie…I love ‘em and think they’re always filled with good teachable moments. I highlighted loyalty, friendship, and cooperation in this post.
  • #6: Probably my favorite post thus far! Take These 3 Steps To Become An Effective Leader talks about how we need to take time to be by ourselves in order to be the best leaders for our teams. We sometimes feel as if we’re always ripping and running, but that’s not the way to generate new ideas or solve that big problem. Go check it out for the three action items (no more multitasking, be by yourself, and develop real friendships) that will take your leadership to the next level.
  • #5: I’m all about team chemistry and how it leads directly to success. As a matter of fact, I think that great team chemistry can take an average team and make it good…and a good team and make it great! That’s what I talked about in Building Rapport With Your Team: It’s Easy As 1-2-3-(4-5). And while we all spend lots of time and effort getting our players to mesh, it’s just as important that you and your team have good chemistry. Like the saying goes, it starts at the top…and you’re at the top, so get to building bridges coach!
  • #4: There are some movies that stand the test of time, that you can go back to and watch over and over again…and Hoosiers is one of them. It’s an annual tradition for me to kick back with a bowl of popcorn and see what’s up with my boys from Hickory. I’ve used this movie with teams before with a pretty good amount of success and that’s what Effective Use Of Films For Goal Setting was all about. Not about getting your team all fired up about beating a lofty opponent, but how to raise your team’s happiness ceiling…the point at which they’d be happy with the result.
  • #3: This post is the Superman to #8’s Lex Luthor, The 10 Essential Characteristics That Winners Must Possess was an instant success. We all want to be winners and we want our players to be winners and this post outlined qualities found in most winners, based on the book Values of the Game by Bill Bradley.
  • #2: Ahh, college…good times. I played collegiate volleyball (waaay) back in the day and my coach had created a few antagonistic relationships with a few of the players. How To Lose Credibility With Your Team In 3 Easy Steps details how a seemingly innocent pre-game meal got turned sideways. I don’t want to give the story away, so click on the link to find out what happens when baked ziti and volleyball players cross paths!
  • #1: *drumroll please!* In a clear case of me not knowing everything (even when I think I do!), I almost didn’t publish this article because I wasn’t sure that it really had a strong connection with coaching or team building or any of the other things that I talk about on this site. But 4 Reasons Our Children Should Play Sports (Or My Love Letter To Athletics) has turned out to be the most popular post that I’ve written thus far. Perhaps it strikes a chord with those of us coaches who remember when people played sports because they loved it…not because their parents forced them or that they thought they may get an athletic scholarship down the line. If you believe in the power of athletics, this one is a must read!


Now click away people…and enjoy!

7 Websites That Will Make You A Better Coach

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It’s that time of the year, where everywhere you go you’re hearing about the “top ten” this and the “best of” that…so I figured I’d hop on the bandwagon. I am admittedly addicted to all things electronic and social media, so I’ll just go ahead and call myself an expert about this stuff. My bookmarks tab is quite long (well beyond the seven that I’m about to talk about!), full of blogs and websites about coaching, team building, business, and volleyball. I don’t want to say that these are the best of the best, but most of them have tons of information on them and should you desire to use your winter break for bopping around on the Internet, this should give you a good start.

  • First, I stop off at Twitter. I know folks think that Twitter is full of updates about what people had for breakfast that morning, but it’s actually got a lot of useful information on it. What’s helped me with Twitter is separating people into lists…I’ve got lists for athletics, business, motivational, education, and a few more. That way, I can go directly to something that I’m looking for rather than having to sort through everyone’s tweet updates.
  • Then there’s usually something on Twitter gets me interested in the Harvard Business Review’s blog, so I go on over there. I think there are a lot of ties between the business and sports worlds with their emphases on team, so I often find a lot of good stuff here. Twitter address: @HarvardBiz
  • After bopping around on HBR’s website, I typically head over to the Chronicle of Higher Education’s website. Some of their articles require a subscription, but most don’t. As college coaches, we’re part of the higher ed stratosphere, so we’ve got to know what folks are talking about on campus. Twitter address: @chronicle
  • If I’m looking for an inspirational story that will get the gears in my brain moving, I head over to The Talent Code’s blog. This is the blog of the author of The Talent Code and he’s got great takes on practice, coaching, and what makes people great.
  • Then it’s down to business…that means volleyball people! First I check on D3vball.com because it’s kind of a one-stop shop for all things Division III volleyball. It’s a pretty interactive website that allows you to search by team or conference to see what’s going on all over the country.
  • And in the off-season when I’m thinking of good strength and conditioning ideas for my team (because we don’t have a S & C coach here), I check out two websites…Learn2TrainSafely and Training For Volleyball. I’ve spoken with the guys who run both of those sites and know that they’re pretty fired up about training correctly and safely. The Learn2Train site has a lot of nutrition stuff on there and is focused on training the female athlete, so that’s cool. And Training For Volleyball (affiliate link) is more video driven, which is nice if he’s talking about something that’s new to you.


So click away and I know you’ll find some good info out there!

Feliz Navidad: 5 Gifts Santa Can Drop Off For Coaches

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If you’re out shopping today, then you’ve missed the fun part of shopping…where everyone’s happy and smiling and singing carols. Now people are stressed, desperate, and not quite as friendly. But don’t you worry, I sent my list in to Santa for all of us and this is what you can expect to find under your tree tomorrow morning.

**5 things that I hope Santa leaves for me (and my fellow coaches!)
when he comes down our chimneys tomorrow**

  • Great athletes. I’m sure I don’t have to expand on this, but I’ll quickly define what I mean by “great”. Surely skill comes into play, as well as a high sports I.Q., a love of the game, a love of hard work, an understanding of and commitment to team, the ability to rise to the occasion, and a strong desire to be a leader. And that’s just the start.
  • Understanding bosses. Administrators that know we’re slightly crazy during season and put up with it, who know what our programs need before we even ask, that understand that they’ve got to fight for our teams and programs so that we’re adequately funded and supported. Bosses who want success.
  • Awesome recruits. These folks have all of the traits of “great athletes” as described above…and they fit in with your team seamlessly. Not only are they fired about your school and your team, they commit to your program early out of respect for the other people that you’re recruiting.
  • Perspective. Every win doesn’t mean you’re going to win a national championship and each loss doesn’t mean that your team is awful and doomed to failure. Perspective shows us coaches that we are leaders and teachers of young people. While the most immediate benefit of our instruction is sport skill building, we’re also building them into better human beings. We’re teaching them how to win and lose with grace, how to take care of their bodies and eat healthily, how to value hard work, how to deal with the unfairness that will sometimes happen in life, and how to be a member of a group with a goal or cause that’s bigger than they are.
  • Passion. I hope you love what you do. I hope that you can’t go to sleep some nights because you’re so excited about a new play that you know will work or the next competition. I hope that your athletes make you laugh even when you want to be serious. I hope that you jot down ideas about your team on napkins while you’re having lunch. I hope that you love learning about your sport and your craft. I hope you’re getting better every day. I hope you love what you do.


I’m sure this is a list that we can all get behind, one that’ll make our teams better. Merry Christmas folks and safe travels during the holiday season!

Jingle Bell Rock: 8 Christmas Wishes For The Athletes You Coach

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It’s crunch time people…only a few more days to find that perfect gift for everyone on your list. Though I suppose at this point, it doesn’t really have to be perfect, does it? I do have a list of gifts that would be perfect for your team to receive this year. Gifts that would make them better teammates and better players. They may not know that they need these gifts though, so you’ll need to write up a wish list for them. Here they are:

8 things you’d be fired up for Santa to leave under your player’s Christmas trees

1. Confidence. In themselves, in their abilities, and the future of the team. It’s essential to any sort of success your team may have…and it’s got to be consistent. Situational confidence is short-lived, to be crushed by the next loss or poor performance. But genuine confidence? Now that’s the good stuff! It’s a belief held deep down within the athlete that they will ultimately be successful.

2. Success. We love our athletes, don’t we? And we want the best for them and hope that all of their hard work and focused intensity will pay off in the end with some sort of tangible success. Whether it’s the non-starter who becomes a starter, or the starter who makes all-conference, or the all-conference player that receives national recognition…we all hope for a measure of success for our players.

3. Self-motivation. In my mind, the best gift that Santa could leave! Every drill, every game, every weight room workout is only as good as the amount of effort our athletes are willing to put in. For those who are internally motivated to work hard in the off-season, during preseason, in the weight room…those are the athletes who will see tremendous improvement over the course of their careers.

4. Hard work. There’s only one person who knows if your players are working to their full potential…that’s the players themselves! We can put them into physically and mentally challenging situations, but it’s up to them to truly challenge themselves. We all hope that we’ll have a team full of players that will never “dog it” in a drill or not push themselves in a practice, but we’ve got to trust them to take things seriously. Those athletes who are willing to keep their foot on the gas pedal throughout the entire season will ultimately experience success.

5. Leadership. The responsibility of being a team leader is exciting to some and daunting to others. We’d love for our teams to be full of leaders and leaders-in-training. Your current leaders could model to your leaders-in-training the proper ways to motivate and encourage people. An openness and desire to lead is essential because I don’t think that you can thrust leadership onto someone, but rather it must be accepted.

6. Teaminess. That’s a word that I’ve made up that describes the state of an individual who values their teammates and enjoys being in a team environment. The teamy player puts their teammates first and is willing to sacrifice personal glory for the good of the team. Teaminess is what occurs when a group of people come together with a common goal, a common purpose, and a common level of dedication.

7. Skill. Hopefully Santa will leave a gigantic box of skill under our player’s trees! Because all of the intangibles in the world won’t do the team much good if it’s not combined with skill. But those intangibles should spur the player on to work at their skill level with a laser-like focus.

8. Hunger. I’m sure we’ve all coached the athlete that was blessed with a tremendous heaping of skill, but junks it away with their laziness. I’m not talking about that athlete, but rather the one who is very skilled and willing to work to better their already finely tuned skills. The athlete who wants to win and be successful so badly that they can literally taste it. The player who is being propelled by their desire to get better every single day.

Those are the things that I want for my players. They’ve got a finite amount of time to accomplish great things and my wish for them is that they do everything within their power to attain their goals.

Two Front Teeth? A Coach’s Opinion On What Administrators Should Want For Christmas

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It’s official. Christmas is this week and if you’re like me, you’re still not finished shopping. But that’s neither here nor there. Since it’s that gift giving time of the year, I wanted to talk about what I thought administrators (Presidents, Provosts, Principles, Athletics Directors) should be putting on their list for when they go to sit on Santa’s lap.

6 things that should be on every administrator’s “wish list” for their Athletics department

1. No part time coaches on staff. Yes, it’s true. There are still places where there are part time head coaches on staff. As an administrator, how can you realistically look those athletes in the eye and tell them that you care about them, their sport, and their experience if their coach has to work another job just to make ends meet?

2. Every sport adequately funded. I’m not saying equally funded, but every sport should be given the appropriate amount that will allow the team to schedule competitively, travel safely and efficiently, and purchase equipment appropriately.

3. Well paid coaching staffs. Fans want successful teams. Administrators want successful teams. Coaches want successful teams. But do you know what would help ensure that success? Paying your coaching staffs! And not just the head coach, but allow them to bring in one or two assistants that will be rock stars and then you can sit back and look like a genius when all of the wins start piling up.

4. Facilities to be proud of. Nice facilities are a win-win for everyone. The Athletics Department wins because their athletes are able to train in luxury and potential student-athletes are impressed by the facilities. Plus, your coaches will enjoy coming to work even more when they feel the financial support of their institution. And of course the students, faculty, and staff will enjoy the upgraded facilities and the ability to get a quality workout right on campus.

5. Respect from general campus body. I’ve never sat down with a coach of any sport at any level that really felt like the academic side of the world “got” what happens on our fields and in our gyms. The life lessons that occur are immeasurable (working hard when you don’t necessarily feel like it, faith in an uncertain future, balancing work loads, building team spirit, etc.) and applicable to real life situations. Hopefully administrators are out pounding the proverbial pavement to make sure that their coaches and athletes get the respect that they deserve from the academic folks.

6. Equality for athletics and academics. The athletic and academic worlds aren’t as far apart as some would like to think. As a matter of fact, I’d say that we have similar goals: to prepare our students for life beyond college. Academics give them what they need to earn a degree in order to obtain a job and athletics gives them the skills to be a high-functioning employee once they receive that job. We’re on the same page…so why doesn’t it seem that way?

I’m sure you’ve got things on your list that may be appropriate for your school, but I felt like this was a good start.

Book Review: Quiet Strength—The Principles, Practices, & Priorities of a Winning Life

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“I don’t yell a lot. In fact, yelling will be rare. When I get mad, I usually talk at the same volume I’m talking now. And when I get really mad…I whisper. So if my voice at this level won’t get your attention and you believe you need someone to yell at you to correct you or motivate you, then we’ll probably need to find you another team to play for so that you can play your best.” –Tony Dungy

How often do you hear a quotation like that coming from a coach…and a football coach at that?! Many of us grew up watching or being coached by old school coaches…and “quiet” wouldn’t be a word used to describe most of them. But in Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy, he talks about his methods and how those techniques ultimately won him a Super Bowl.

The rundown: I think that the title of this book could have been “Quiet Confidence” as well. Think about the inner strength and confidence Dungy must have had in himself and his way of doing things that he was able to buck the tradition and be a football coach on his own terms. What an awesome lesson for us to learn! To have confidence in your calling as a coach when the results aren’t turning out how you’d like. To have confidence in your coaching style and philosophy when others tell you that you can’t be successful with your methods. This book details Dungy’s career from player to Super Bowl champion…and all of the ups and downs in between. But the one thing that is a consistent theme throughout the book is his commitment to his coaching style.

Recommended for: All coaches. We put ourselves in such unbalanced situations during our seasons…in terms of our family time, our nutrition, our sleeping patterns. On a certain level, I believe we thrive in those situations…but only short term. The idea of this book though, is that our coaching lives shouldn’t be separate from our faith, from our families, from who we are as people. If you’re looking for a book that gives example after example of someone living a life of integrity (oftentimes when he wasn’t outwardly rewarded for it), then you’ll enjoy Quiet Strength.

Not recommended for: Dungy makes no apologies for his Christian faith and it’s a strong theme that runs throughout this book. If that would be offensive to you, this book probably isn’t for you.

So if you’re still stressing about a gift for that coach in your life (Christmas is next week, you know), this would be a welcomed package underneath the tree.

Do you have a coaching nerd in your life who just loves to learn more and more about their sport and their craft? Then I’d bet that they love to read books! Keep checking back as I talk about three books that are great for coaches: Gender & Competition by Kathy DeBoer, Mind Gym by Gary Mack, and Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy.

Book Review: Mind Gym—An Athlete’s Guide To Inner Excellence

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I believe in training my team’s brains…showing them how they are in control of their situation and their view of their situation. Mind Gym by Gary Mack is a great book for individuals and teams to challenge themselves to develop their mental games. While it may not supply your athletes with new and unique ideas about the mental aspects of sports, it will give them real life examples of folks who’ve been successful using the techniques mentioned in the book. It’s also a bulletin board’s friend, because it’s full of great quotations…here are a few:

“Successful people take responsibility for themselves and their game. They understand that it’s not the event but how they respond to it that’s most important.”

“Motivation depends in a very large part on goal setting. The coach must have goals. The team must have goals. Each individual must have goals—real, vivid, living goals. Goals keep everyone on target.”

“Failure is the best teacher in the world…you get to learn from what happens to you—both good and bad—in a real-live game situation.”

“Consistency separates good athletes from great ones. The best athletes win consistently because they think, act, and practice consistently.”

“Sports is more than a contest of physical ability. Sports also test courage, which comes from the Latin word meaning heart. And it’s the human heart where the hero within us lives.”

The rundown: Mind Gym is a short book with short chapters that are pretty easy to read. The author is a sports psychologist who has worked with many professional athletes to push them past their own personal mental barriers. While he does supply some mental exercises that athletes can use, I think the best parts of the book are the stories and testimonials from the athletes themselves.

Recommended for: It’d be a great team book. Every year, I pick a book for my team to read as a group and this one would be awesome…especially if you know that the mental side of the game will be a weak point for your team. It’s full of good examples from professional athletes and most importantly, it’s an easy read that won’t overwhelm your players with their other studies.

Not recommended for: It’s not a deep book that will challenge your coaching philosophy…but rather a book that says what you’re probably already saying to your team. Don’t buy it thinking you’re going to get all sorts of bright ideas, but rather a support system to your current coaching system.

I enjoyed this book because it’s something that my athletes can keep with them that shows them how to control their thoughts and win the mind game.

Just by clicking here you can get Coach Dawn Writes articles emailed directly to your inbox! It’s free and easy…and you won’t get spammed. Scouts honor.

Do you have a coaching nerd in your life who just loves to learn more and more about their sport and their craft? Then I’d bet that they love to read books! Keep checking back as I talk about three books that are great for coaches: Gender & Competition by Kathy DeBoer, Mind Gym by Gary Mack, and Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy.

Book Review: Gender & Competition—How Men and Women Approach Work and Play Differently

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In 2000, I took my first collegiate head coaching job. While I was fired up about coaching and volleyball…I was pretty clueless about what it took to be successful as a leader of young women. That same year, I went to my coaches convention where Kathy DeBoer was the keynote speaker and it was an eye opening experience to say the least. Her topic was “Improving the Competitiveness of Your Female Team” and she’s expanded that two-day seminar into a great book, Gender and Competition: How Men and Women Approach Work and Play Differently. Here’s a bit about her book:

The rundown: The book is filled with stories from her coaching days and missteps she made with some of her female players, but also stories from her time in athletics administration. At the heart of the matter is a generation of female coaches who may not have had female coaches themselves who then try to coach as they were coached by men…and the utter disaster that follows. Of course I’d suggest that you read the book, but basically it comes down to women having different expectations from other women than they do from men.

That’s one side of the story. The other side is how to motivate female athletes for greatness. DeBoer says that culturally, young girls view winning and losing as opposite of the “closeness that females value” and avoid it in play activities. As you read this, your eyes will be opened to the type of environment that you can create to help your female team embrace competition.

Recommended for: Coaches of female athletes…whether male or female. It gives good insight into why our athletes are the way they are and what they need from us to push them to be great.

Not recommended for: People who insist that there aren’t gender differences, because that’s the basic premise of the book. As DeBoer says, “until recently, it was not politically correct to think of women as different. If you said women were equal, then they couldn’t be different. The wonderful news is we can now say women are equal and different. And that’s a huge and dramatic breakthrough.”

Great book and it’d make a great gift for the coach in your life…or for yourself to read over winter break.

Do you have a coaching nerd in your life who just loves to learn more and more about their sport and their craft? Then I’d bet that they love to read books! Keep checking back as I talk about three books that are great for coaches: Gender & Competition by Kathy DeBoer, Mind Gym by Gary Mack, and Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy.

The Ultimate Trifecta For Success: Your Team, Patience, And Faith

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John Wooden is a coaching rock star and legend. So I thought, what better gift to give my readers during this holiday season than a series on Wooden’s Pyramid of Success? Join me for a series of posts that will delve into both the foundation and apex of his Pyramid and examine Wooden’s thoughts on Industriousness, Enthusiasm, Friendship, Loyalty, Cooperation, Competitive Greatness, and finally, Faith & Patience.

Faith & Patience

Wooden calls faith and patience the mortar that keeps the blocks of the Pyramid of Success together and I couldn’t agree more. I’ll bet you’re wondering why…well I have some answers for you!

Why Patience?

  • Because it takes time to create excellence. Do you remember your first year coaching? Just how awful were you? I don’t know about you, but I was pretty bad. And not to toot my own horn (toot, toot!), but I’m not doing too badly right now and I bet you aren’t either. The same process we go through as coaches, our athletes will have to muddle through as well.
  • Because your team needs time to gel. They’re not going to walk into the gym or onto the field and be battle tested in the first week. So after you’ve fired them up for the season and they’ve come up with goals for the season…be patient and trust the process.
  • Because you’ve got to figure out how to be the best coach for your team. You’ve got to find out the different personality types that make up your team and how they’re motivated. And just as important, they’ve got to figure you out and all of your idiosyncrasies…what ticks you off and what gets you all fired up and excited.


Why Faith?

  • Because there’s no reason to play if you don’t have faith that you could win it all in the end. You may not, but if you don’t think that you will…why play?
  • Because that’s what gives meaning to your goals. We all set goals months before we’ll ever know if they will come to fruition. Without faith that you can accomplish your goals…what are you playing for?
  • Because it’s built into the fabric of sports and we, as coaches, have to teach faith and belief just like we teach the more tangible skills of our sport.


We should all be able to stand in front of our teams and say, like Wooden: “The values, ideals, and principles of the Pyramid of Success are the qualities that will allow you to stand tall. You have success within. It’s up to you to bring it out.” Isn’t that what we want for our players at the end of the season and at the end of their careers? To be able to stand tall and be proud of what they did? I believe the Pyramid is a huge step in the right direction.