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How To Recognize Leaders Who Can Handle Crisis

07 May

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Cultivating leaders has been on my mind lately. I’m trying to make sure that I do my best to create the best and most amazing leaders that I possibly can…I want my athletes to be rock stars!

What does an awesome leader look like? According to this post, great leaders follow their values, are confident in crisis, and are well connected on the team.

During the course of a normal season, with its ups and downs, every team requires a leader who can handle crisis. Check out the different ways leaders can help or hurt when your team is going through a tough time.

Problem Leaders

Awesome Leaders

  1. Value themselves above others. They always seem to find someone else to blame for their problems and the problems of the team.
  2. Lack confidence, so they’re defensive. Problem leaders feel that things are out of their control (“Susie doesn’t like me”, “Coach won’t play me because she hates me”, etc.) and will lash out to associate blame with anyone besides themselves.
  3. Don’t connect well with their teammates since they’re always looking for someone to blame for their problems. This “leader” will say things to their coach like: “Susie’s not working hard enough in practice, that’s why we’re losing” or “Amy is doing who knows what on the weekend, that’s why the team isn’t playing well.”
  1. Value others and are compassionate. Even in those cases where blame can be put on a teammate, an awesome leader doesn’t blame and never tries to do publicly what should be done privately.
  2. Remain calm and focused because they are confident. They aren’t the start of gossip or negative energy on the team…and when they hear it, awesome leaders can nip it in the bud. They are able to handle team issues with a sense of calm and poise.
  3. Are very connected to their teammates even while holding a position of leadership. Awesome leaders see themselves as part of the solution, so they don’t complain to their coach after the fact…they talk it out with their teammates right then and there. Since they’ve made such good connections with their teammates, their critique is well-received.


As we talk to our teams about picking captains or recognizing leadership traits in one another, this would be great information to give them.

 
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Creating A Winning Culture

04 May

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I follow a lot of business magazines on Twitter, so when the headline “What It Takes To Win” appeared on my timeline, I knew I was going to bring it over here. This is what all coaches are trying to figure out, right? Rather than an article, it’s actually a series of five short videos interviewing Howard Schultz, the CEO of Starbucks. I’d say he knows a thing or two about being successful against fierce competition!

Many times in my gym, we say that winning is an outcome, not part of the process…and if we control the process, we can reasonably assume that the outcome will be positive in our favor. So we don’t talk “winning” necessarily, but there are steps we can take to ensure we’ve done our best to control the process.

3 important attitudes teams need in order to create a winning culture

Culture creation Schultz said two things about creating culture that stuck out to me…and that I think are linked. First, those people who are willing to get their hands dirty will succeed. What does that mean? It means the team is “all in”. Is everyone on our team giving it their all? Sometimes players will hold back because they don’t think they’re an important piece of the team or because they’re new to the team. When everyone is willing to go all out every day in practice, our odds of winning increase. Second, everyone needs a stake in what it takes to win. That way, no one’s to blame when things go wrong, but more importantly, no one can gloat when things work out the way we’re hoping. It levels the playing field.

Great team chemistry If you’ve been reading for a while or you’ve seen me speak, you know that I believe that sport is about way more than skills and drills and games…it’s about the intangibles we use each and every day! Sport is just the Trojan horse for creating amazing human beings. Schultz says that unbridled enthusiasm and passion are essential for great team chemistry. Of course, this is part of the great culture that we’ll create of players who are willing to get their hands dirty. An enthusiasm for practicing, for getting better, for working hard, for pushing each other, for excelling, for never giving up, for supporting one another…that’s what will give our team’s great chemistry.

Make bold moves As Robert Frost said, “I took the road less traveled, and that has made all the difference.” Winning may mean we have to swim upstream and do things a little differently. A great line from the video is that great leaders must be able to see what’s around the corner. Maybe you see that your team’s leadership is in its younger classes…how will you handle that while maintaining your team chemistry? Maybe you think a player should switch positions, but you don’t think she’ll be all that fired up about it…how will you sell it to her? There are so many situations that require the coach’s forethought…will we be ready? One word of caution, whenever we do things that are outside of the box, people will think we’re doomed to fail. Making bold moves means we must have the courage of our convictions and do what we think is best for the team.

So, here we are! We’ve got the steps mapped out for creating a winning culture: Everyone on the team needs a stake in its success or failure, passion for the team and how the team plays is critical, and a willingness to make bold moves and do things differently.

 
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On The Inefficiency Of Multitasking

02 May

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This post from the Harvard Business Review’s blog is spot on, you should read it. In The Magic of Doing One Thing at a Time, the author talks about multitasking and why it really doesn’t work.

Consequences of multitasking
I’m a to-do list kind of lady, it helps me stay focused. There are times when I can’t help but to get side-tracked from checking things off of my list. Players may drop in the office, or my boss may pop in to chat about something, or an email may chime in demanding immediate attention. But most times, I can script my day and I try to get as much done (I thing at a time) as I can. Without my to-do list, I think I’d fall prey to multitasking. Here are some downsides:

  • We become partially engaged in multiple things, but rarely fully engaged in one.
  • We increase our time to finish each task by 25%.
  • In a word: burnout.


I wrote about it in You Think You Can But You Can’t: On The Evils Of Multitasking if you’d like to see more info.

Changing group expectations
Part of society’s multitasking problem is it has become built in to our culture. I get work emails and texts at nine, ten, or eleven o’clock at night. Of course, I choose to look at my phone to check them…but why are they even being sent? In my post, Step Away From The Computer: Why Unplugging Will Keep You Sane, I talk about creating time for ourselves by creating electronics-free time. Here are three ways that we can help our teams understand the beauty of doing one thing at a time:

  • Maintain practice discipline. We’ve got to show our players that they can be focused for an extended period of time…and not resort to their crutch phones to entertain them.
  • Stop expecting immediate responses. I’m sure I’m not the only one who gets annoyed if I send an email or text and don’t hear back right away. As if everyone in the world is sitting around staring at their computer or phone waiting to hear from me. Not only is this attitude selfish, it’s a little arrogant as well.
  • Encourage rest. Talking to our players about the benefit of resting, of really doing nothing should be something we deem important. Physical, as well as mental, rest is essential for balance.


Changing personal expectations
How can we adjust our personal expectations so that we can find balance in our lives? I wrote a post called, Take These 3 Steps To Become A More Effective Leader, based on a great article from The American Scholar called, Solitude and Leadership. You should check it out, because it talks about how to counter this attitude that we always have to be “on”. Here are three things we can do to change our personal mindsets about multitasking:

  • Do the most important stuff in the morning. It’s funny, everyone here at work says the same thing: I get more work done in the morning before everyone else gets into the office. What if we planned our days in that manner? We could close our office doors for an hour or so and be super productive.
  • Schedule strategic/creative time. This way we’re not always reacting to situations, but being proactive. I’m a big fan of assessing my seasons…I can’t do that if I’m always running around like my pants are on fire.
  • Take real vacations. Going to Spain, but constantly checking your work email and texts doesn’t count. A real vacation could be taking a week off to tend to your garden and not worrying about work stuff.


Full disclosure, I couldn’t even get through writing this post without checking my phone. As organized as I am, I can still be distracted by the various beeps and chimes of my phone. How much quicker would we finish our to-do lists if we didn’t let outside things grab our attention? I don’t know about you, but I’d like to find out.

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