Monthly Archives: December 2014

Jingle Bell Rock: 8 Christmas Wishes For The Athletes You Coach

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It’s crunch time people…only one more day to find that perfect gift for everyone on your list. Though I suppose at this point, it doesn’t really have to be perfect, does it? I do have a list of gifts that would be perfect for your team to receive this year. Gifts that would make them better teammates and better players. They may not know that they need these gifts though, so you’ll need to write up a wish list for them. Here they are:

8 things you’d be fired up for Santa to leave under your player’s Christmas trees

1. Confidence. In themselves, in their abilities, and the future of the team. It’s essential to any sort of success your team may have…and it’s got to be consistent. Situational confidence is short-lived, to be crushed by the next loss or poor performance. But genuine confidence? Now that’s the good stuff! It’s a belief held deep down within the athlete that they will ultimately be successful.

2. Success. We love our athletes, don’t we? And we want the best for them and hope that all of their hard work and focused intensity will pay off in the end with some sort of tangible success. Whether it’s the non-starter who becomes a starter, or the starter who makes all-conference, or the all-conference player that receives national recognition…we all hope for a measure of success for our players.

3. Self-motivation. In my mind, the best gift that Santa could leave! Every drill, every game, every weight room workout is only as good as the amount of effort our athletes are willing to put in. For those who are internally motivated to work hard in the off-season, during preseason, in the weight room…those are the athletes who will see tremendous improvement over the course of their careers.

4. Hard work. There’s only one person who knows if your players are working to their full potential…that’s the players themselves! We can put them into physically and mentally challenging situations, but it’s up to them to truly challenge themselves. We all hope that we’ll have a team full of players that will never “dog it” in a drill or not push themselves in a practice, but we’ve got to trust them to take things seriously. Those athletes who are willing to keep their foot on the gas pedal throughout the entire season will ultimately experience success.

5. Leadership. The responsibility of being a team leader is exciting to some and daunting to others. We’d love for our teams to be full of leaders and leaders-in-training. Your current leaders could model to your leaders-in-training the proper ways to motivate and encourage people. An openness and desire to lead is essential because I don’t think that you can thrust leadership onto someone, but rather it must be accepted.

6. Teaminess. That’s a word that I’ve made up that describes the state of an individual who values their teammates and enjoys being in a team environment. The teamy player puts their teammates first and is willing to sacrifice personal glory for the good of the team. Teaminess is what occurs when a group of people come together with a common goal, a common purpose, and a common level of dedication.

7. Skill. Hopefully Santa will leave a gigantic box of skill under our player’s trees! Because all of the intangibles in the world won’t do the team much good if it’s not combined with skill. But those intangibles should spur the player on to work at their skill level with a laser-like focus.

8. Hunger. I’m sure we’ve all coached the athlete that was blessed with a tremendous heaping of skill, but junks it away with their laziness. I’m not talking about that athlete, but rather the one who is very skilled and willing to work to better their already finely tuned skills. The athlete who wants to win and be successful so badly that they can literally taste it. The player who is being propelled by their desire to get better every single day.

Those are the things that I want for my players. They’ve got a finite amount of time to accomplish great things and my wish for them is that they do everything within their power to attain their goals.

Why Collaboration Trumps Cooperation On Teams

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“Collaboration is hard.” –The Science of Teamwork

When I was a student, I greatly disliked group projects. There were many reasons, mostly stemming from my big-headed idea that I could do better all by myself. Then I figured out that everyone in the group was thinking the same thing! What we were really doing, according to the article I linked above, was cooperating, not collaborating.

What’s the difference? Cooperating means identifying a common goal and proceeding on an individual path which fits under the umbrella of the goal. Cooperation means the goal can be accomplished singly and then fit together neatly at the end. Cooperation, according to the article, means that each individual can be praised for their particular effort.

Collaboration is hard, but necessary, if our teams are to accomplish anything great. Collaboration is messy and sometimes emotional because it necessitates that give up their personal desires for the greater good of the team. So how do we take our teams from cooperating to collaborating.

3 ways to encourage collaboration on our teams

Give up individual goals. I know that we all talk to our players about their particular goals for the season…and that’s a good thing. But it’s not the first thing. If the team wins a national championship, but that player didn’t accomplish all of her goals, I’d hope she would see the season as a resounding success.

Emotional give and take. When I was a player, me and a friend (who also happened to be a teammate) where fighting for the same starting position. Both of us had to be adults about the decision that was going to be made…one of us would start and the other wouldn’t. And it would be for the good of the team. As hard and emotional and challenging as the situation was, it was worth it because it wasn’t about us, but about the team.

Work in new ways that may not be comfortable. I would guess that all coaches are in the business of challenging our players. We challenge them to try different skill techniques. We challenge them to be vocal leaders. We challenge them to think more critically about our sport. And all of that challenging isn’t comfortable for them…but they do it (or at least they should) for the good of the team. They understand that their coach wouldn’t ask them to do anything that wouldn’t also greatly benefit the team.

While it’s harder to receive individual accolades using the collaboration method, it’s crucial for our teams to embrace the challenge.